by Tom Gallant and Sister Sue Tracy
. I will not let cancer defeat me and my attitude will stay positive.
. It is normal to have a multitude of emotions; you may be angry, sad and distraught. You may even be asking the following questions, be sure to ask God for wisdom as you walk through this journey.
• Why did I get cancer?
• What did I do wrong to cause this to happen?
• Am I going to make it?
• Why now?
• What about my family?
• What about my career?
• Do I have enough money to get through this?
• What are the long-term implications of having cancer?
• Do I have the right doctor for my condition?
• Am I getting good advice?
• Should I take chemotherapy, radiation, have surgery or other treatment options?
. The big “C” Christ conquers the little “c” cancer. God is bigger than any challenges or problems we face. He is always there to help and understands your suffering. It is important to embrace God’s grace. We may have challenges, but this is part of God’s bigger plan for our lives. It may take time to understand His plan, but be patient and He will reveal His plan to you.
. Facing hard times is an invitation to deepen your faith, widen your wisdom and cultivate compassion. Hard times can make us stronger. When we comfort others, they need to see our faith in action and see God in us. This will reassure them that they are not alone.
. Through life’s challenges we have the opportunity to meet others, deliver the message of hope and comfort them in their time of need. Listening to one’s story with empathy and compassion will go a long way toward helping people feel better about their situation. In turn, they may reach out to help someone as well.
. How to help a friend or loved one facing the challenge of cancer:
• Send Cards
• Call them often, asking if they have specific needs for that particular day.
• Remember their family and help with their need. They may need childcare, meals, yard work, laundry and cleaning help. Gas cards and restaurant gift cards are especially helpful because family members spend so much time away from home.
. Remember, when you have cancer, you also have access to the hearts of people like never before. Share your story and allow God to use you to bring healing to someone else
. God loves you, listen to his voice.